Did You Make a Resolution to Use Online Dating?

Published on January 2, 2012

In my last article I talked about taking your resolution seriously if you are resolving to date online. If you’ve not read that article already, I’d encourage you do do so. I have a free online dating guide that you can download but I realize not everyone wants a full book on dating to read. […]

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eHarmony Free Weekend: Dec 30th to January 2nd, 2012

Published on December 28, 2011

eHarmony will be having a free communication weekend to ring in the New Year. This free event starts on Friday December 30th, 2011 and will run until January 2nd, 2012. Sign up eHarmony to Try the Free Weekend

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New Year’s Resolutions and Online Dating

Published on December 26, 2011

We’re about to head into what is considered the busiest time for online dating. It turns out that more than a people will be resolving to stop being single and the population of the online dating services is about to spike. If you’re considering making such dating resolution this year and plan to use online […]

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Spotting Fake Profiles with Google Images

Published on December 18, 2011

In my free online dating guide, I talk about using a service called tineye to identify fake dating profiles. In this article, I want to talk about using Google Images to do the same thing. In many ways I’m writing this for men as I believe scams with beautiful women are aimed more at them […]

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Low Responses When Talking About Yourself in First Emails

Published on December 11, 2011

When I talk about what I think makes for a good first email, one thing I’ve argued in the past is that you shouldn’t be talking about yourself in one of these emails. As I’ve said, your profile is the place to talk about yourself, not your first email. In this article I want to […]

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Dating Profile Review: Improving a Good Profile

Published on December 4, 2011

From time to time I help readers by reviewing their profiles. Much of the advice I give is covered in my online dating guide but every now and again I think it’s good to go over a real example with all my readers. To be honest, many people who contact me about their profile already […]

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Chemistry.com Free Weekend Dec 2 – 4, 2011

Published on November 29, 2011

Once again Chemistry.com is having a free communication weekend. This free weekend event starts this Friday December 2nd and runs until Sunday, December 4th 2011. This event will start at 12:01AM on the 2nd and will end at 11:59PM on the 4th (in other words, you get all of Friday, Saturday and Sunday with this […]

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More Funny Online Dating Videos from Dentyne

Published on November 28, 2011

Several months ago, I had posted the first two videos from Dentyne called The Single Life. I thought the videos were great and captured a lot of the real humor that happens behind-the-screens with online dating. Well, somehow I lost track of these but a reader contacted me and let me know that the final […]

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eHarmony: Why Am I Getting Less New Matches?

Published on November 21, 2011

I recently had a conversation with a reader where he reveals frustration with getting new eHarmony matches. He said that he had been receiving a dozen matches a day for over a month and then suddenly he didn’t get a match for 5 days. Understandably, he wanted to know where all his matches went! How […]

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Revealing a Disability in Online Dating

Published on November 14, 2011

How should someone with a visible disability approach revealing this information when dating online? A few times in the past year I’ve been contacted by readers who have had this question. I’ve always tried to handle answering this question carefully because I can’t fully appreciate the situation. I think I can empathize well but when […]

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Embarrassed to Reveal You Met Online

Published on November 7, 2011

Have you found success with online dating but now you or your significant other is struggling to admit to others how you met? Believe it or not, my wife and I have actually been there as well. At a company Christmas party several years ago we were in a group of at least 6 people […]

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Office Romances: Rules for Winter Work Parties

Published on October 31, 2011

Office romances are nearly always a bad idea. As the rather crude phrase puts it, ‘Never dip your nib in the office ink.’ It’s best to keep personal and professional lives as separate as possible, as they tend not to mix well. But with the influx of many celebrations over the next few months – […]

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