Online Dating and Getting to an Exclusive Relationship

Published on September 17, 2012

I get quite a few emails from people struggling to handle the situation where the person they’re dating is still active online. I hear from more women on this topic and some of those women don’t always understand my position: that if they’re not in an “exclusive” relationship, I don’t think the man is doing […]

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Should I Wait When They’re Dating Someone Else?

Published on September 10, 2012

How should you handle a situation where you have chemistry with someone in online dating but something prevents them from meeting you in the short-term? Often this might be because of the situation I’ll discuss now: when someone you communicate with wants to communicate with you but won’t go on a date because they are […]

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10 Rules of Social Media When Dating

Published on September 3, 2012

Sites such as Facebook and Twitter have become massive in recent years, but when you’re dating you really need to be careful what you’re saying. In this guide you’ll find the 10 rules of social media when dating, giving you advice on the best ways to avoid causing any problems…

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eHarmony Free Communication Weekend August 31st – Sept 3rd, 2012

Published on August 31, 2012

eHarmony is having a free communication weekend starting Friday, August 31st and running until Monday, September 3rd 2012. This is a four day free weekend to try communicating with your matches on eHarmony (so as is normally the case, it’s a free extended weekend). The pattern for free weekends this year continues as the free […]

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Dealing with Strong Emotions before Meeting in Online Dating

Published on August 27, 2012

How do you handle someone who is sharing strong feelings toward you in online dating when you haven’t even met yet? Or looking at the issue the other way, how much of your feelings should you share when you feel strongly about someone even though you’ve only communicated through a few emails? I’m going to […]

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eHarmony Promo Codes – Up to 20% Off Subscriptions

Published on August 20, 2012

The eHarmony promo codes have been extended to the end of the year and they offer a significant discount, even though taking advantage of them will require some commitment. To use the promo codes at eHarmony, simply enter the code when you’re subscribing and selecting the appropriate time-frame (the 6-month code only works with the […]

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Summer Dating Infographic

Published on August 13, 2012

Below is what I would call a “Summer Dating Infographic”. This infographic is actually titled “Summer Romance on a Budget”…but there’s not a ton of budgeting advice in it! Still it’s fun and interesting. These graphics can get a tad repetitive, showing the same data with new images, but this one has some new statistics […]

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10 Tips to Feel Confident on a First Date

Published on August 6, 2012

If the prospect of going on a first date makes you feel the same as the thought of going to the dentist, there are plenty of ways to relax. Here are 10 tips for how to beat those pre-date nerves for your first meet-up. Choose an outfit you feel comfortable in When you’re on a […]

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Avoid Late Night Emails: Good Idea or Over-Thinking Things?

Published on July 30, 2012

It’s a situation many of us have been in: you decide to check your online dating account when heading to bed and before you know it, it’s 2AM and you’re considering sending an email to someone new. But would the timing of the email send the wrong message? Here’s how one reader puts things: Just […]

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Being Aggressive About Meeting without Scaring Her Away

Published on July 23, 2012

If you’ve read my dating guide, you know I’m for meeting quickly when using online dating. However, there are times where the approach of trying to meet quickly may not go over well with who you are communicating with. Here’s one example from a reader: I’ve been emailing a girl on Match.com for a couple […]

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Chemistry.com Free Weekend July 20th – 22nd, 2012

Published on July 19, 2012

Chemistry.com is having a free weekend starting Friday, July 20th and running until Sunday, July 22nd 2012. Unless I’ve missed some, this is the first free Chemistry.com weekend since May. Unlike some of the other free events, the Chemistry.com free events generally include all the features of the service during the free event so if […]

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Responding to Contact from “Fake” Profiles

Published on July 16, 2012

A reader recently contacted me with the following situation: Just getting my feet beneath me with online dating. What comes clear very fast is that there is a LOT of faking going on, lots of winks from “cardboard” profiles with boilerplate language and a GQ profile photo. Can you discuss how to navigate this and […]

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